Finally! A nice, quiet Saturday morning! There is no place we have to be, all day long! It feels like it's been MONTHS since we've had a weekend all to ourselves!
After breakfast this morning, Brandon and the kids bundled up and went outside. It hasn't snowed as much as our weatherman has threatened it would, but there is still enough to get good and cold in!
Brandon and the kids spent an hour or so chopping wood and loading it into the truck to take to his brother's house.
Look at all of these helpers!
Here's a shot of our stairway, just for grandma.
The view out the bedroom window at the foot of our bed...
And the view out the window at the side of the bed...(they look very similar, I know...LOL)
I love the view out this window - it's above our front door. I took this from upstairs.
Since we had the blog last year when her birthday came, I feel kind of obligated to put up some different baby pictures...and of course, Maggie was our last pre-digital baby so I'm going to have to scan! Ugh!
Ok, this is the picture from last year, I confess!
3 months:
Here she is now (albeit blurry)!
She is indeed a joy! She's loving Polly Pockets and Tinkerbell at the moment! It's hard to believe that "9 years ago right now..." I was holding our brand new Megan!
She laughed this morning when I told her it was snowing the day she was born, just like it is today! She's so easily amused! :)
Our little girl is STILL a girl, no question! And she's doing great. She's measuring several days ahead, which is good (She was 18 weeks and 2 days and measured 19 weeks.). Everything looks and measures perfectly. We couldn't ask for anything better! Our doctor's appointment was uneventful - we all sorta sat in the room looking at each other not knowing what to talk about - no hematomas, no contractions, no worries to speak of - very NOT normal for us! It was GREAT!!
Two profile shots - I'd try to point features out to you but, well, she has none! In the bottom picture though, you can see her right arm laying across her chest. Above (to the left) of her arm is her chin and nose and forehead...if that helps any.
We go back in 4 weeks for our next appointment (by the way, 4 weeks from yesterday is Christmas Eve...our receptionist was kind enough to point that out to us).
In other news, we got our first snow last night. Of course the kids were thrilled! All I could think about was the pile of studded snow tires sitting in my basement, NOT on my van and the trip I need to make to Wal*Mart to finish up Megan's birthday shopping today!
(I realize that for the first 30 seconds of this video, you see nothing but black - and after that, it doesn't get much better...but you can hear the kids and you do get to see an occasional glimps of snow.)
I do have to admit, it is beautiful out here when it snows! If I could just figure out a way to stay in my home until Spring, I'd be set! (View this morning from our living room windows.)
We spent yesterday at Uncle Dave and Aunt Raye's house and it was wonderful. The house was packed with family and food. We suffered through the "Thankfuls" and then enjoyed hours of food and fun. We played games, the kids played outside where it was freezing cold - then came inside where it was packed with people and very hot! Just how I remember it as a kid! :)
On your mark...
Get set...
Go!
Uncle Dave and his ROLLS! My Thanksgiving dinner consisted of 2 rolls - that's all! No turkey, no potatoes, just uncle Dave rolls...they're HUGE by the way! :)
Joseph started out the day a little shy - there were SO MANY PEOPLE! But he warmed up to everyone and soon made his rounds throughout the house...working up quite a thirst!
Here's the fam! I had to break the picture up into a couple of shots - and there were still some people in the kitchen who didn't make it into the pictures. We sure had a wonderful Thanksgiving this year...we hope you did, too!
It's hard to see, but Joseph is playing with a little red laser pen light. He's chasing it around and smacking it like a bug! My favorite thing to do now is to shine the light/dot on Brandon's nose and wait for Joseph to notice it!
Keep It Simple, Stupid! I've found that the most effective way to get through to my children is to speak simply and directly to them. They don't often get long, drawn out answers to their questions. They get what answers their question without making it more confusing! It works for us! They seem to appreciate not having to wonder if they're missing something. We're going to try this theory out in our blog today. It's going to go something like this...
Yes! Yes, we know how this happens! No! No, this wasn't an accident!
I figure those two answers should just about cover the most common questions out there! :)
We'd like to introduce, "Baby M". She is due to join our family April 27th. By our own standard, we're almost half way there. We like to be optimistic and day dream about a baby that arrives on it's due date - but we're also realistic and we are preparing for another early arrival.
We're almost 17 weeks along now and so far everything has been smooth sailing. I'm tired, fat and grouchy - if you didn't know I was pregnant you wouldn't know anything was different from any other day! Actually, I'm feeling much better. We seem to be past (or at least passing) the morning sickness phase which is a blessing! I actually haven't even seen my doctor yet, if you can believe that. I've been in for a few ultra sounds and an exam by (I don't know what she is, really...she's not a real doctor, but she can do exams and check-ups) "Jan". My nurse is taking good care of me! Brandon and I are starting to wonder if she isn't maybe pulling a Norman Bates! It could very well be that she has my doctor propped up in his office simply for looks and that she is really calling all the shots! It's all good with me until it's time for this baby to arrive - then we know how possessive I get about my doctor doing the honors!
We truly hope that no one is offended by finding out our good news via our blog. If you consider the size of my family - added to the size of Brandon's family - throw in several handfuls of close friends...there is just no way we could personally let everyone know - at least not before the baby came.
I realized last month, when the anniversary of my own grandmother's passing came and went, that I didn't so much want "one more day" with my loved ones who had died anymore. Apparently I'm an all or nothing kind of girl! I couldn't stand having to say good-bye AGAIN!! Now I'm a little more content with "memories"! Luckily for our family, we have MANY, WONDERFUL memories of Grandpa Lee! Today would be his 66th birthday! Our family went to a buffet breakfast/lunch yesterday, in his honor (One of Grandpa's favorite restaurants). Of course nothing is the same as it would be to have him here with us, but it is nice to be able to keep his memory alive in our family and do fun little things like this with the kids.
When we got home yesterday (Veteran's Day, no work - no school) we got a few odds and ends done around the house. We actually hung our first, official picture on the wall! Yes, we've been here 5 1/2 months - no, we didn't have anything hung on the wall until last night! It's amazing how "homey" photos, prints, paintings and other artsy/fartsy (sorry, that was one of my grandma's sayings) things make a home! The very first picture we hung was the picture/collage I made (with enormous help from a few online friends) of Grandpa Lee for Brandon's Christmas gift last year! We slid the frame up and down on the wall trying to decide the most perfect place to put it - and finally Brandon said, "Right here, this is where I can look right into his eyes." Well, *sniff* there just isn't much you say after that!
There isn't much we wouldn't give to have Grandpa back! Of course we know that he's always near by and we know we'll see him again - but the wait sucks (sorry,that's one of my sayings). I miss him like I would my own dad. I can't even put in to words how much Brandon misses his father. My children talk about grandpa a lot and we sometimes cry together still. We want them to know that it's ok to be sad - heaven knows I'm sitting here with tears streaming down my face - I can hardly expect more from my children. We are blessed to be part of Grandpa's family!
Yesterday (and today) Jason stayed home from school. Yesterday he had an appointment with the orthodontist. In preparation for braces, the doctor put spacers between Jason's molars...so he's home today w/ ice packs and Motrin.
But, yesterday afternoon, Jason felt ok and since there was only an hour left of school after his appointment, I just brought him home with me. The little girlies were gone, playing at their cousin's house, so it was just Jason and Joseph. I was in the kitchen and could here Joseph laughing and laughing - finally, Jason came in and said, "Hey mom, I taught Joseph how to play football." So here are a few short videos of the brothers being cute!
I think if I went back and copied most of our blog entry from Halloween last year, it would be a lot the same! We went to the church last night for the annual chaos fest! It's really just me that has issues with it. Apparently I don't do well in large groups of people - and this party is always a LARGE GROUP OF PEOPLE!!
Of course, as usual, the party was great! The kids always have a fabulous time - the decorations were great - the games were great. It's always just so much fun. In addition to the games and the trick or treating, we also had a chili cook-off! There was salad and bread sticks - and so much chili! It was so good - as chili always is on arctic cold nights...like, oh say, last night!
The kids dressed up in the old faithful costumes. We aren't a family that is very interested in venturing out of our comfort zone when it comes to dressing up. We pretty much stick to the tried and true costumes! I could put up last year's picture and I think we'd see the same costumes, just on different bodies!
Mom snapped this picture just because Joe is so darned cute and it was one of those rare moments when he didn't have a binkie stuck in his face! And it counters his not-so-happy face from the picture above.
Last Saturday was Taco Soup and apparently Joseph's serving had sleeping powder on it. Luckily, he saved a little soup on his cheeks for after his nap.
We sure enjoy Jaynie - she has such a little personality. She's very shy and quiet most of the time. But when she's home during the day w/ just Malorie, mom and Joseph, she turns into such an out-going, playful little girl.
One day during the week, Malorie goes to a little Play Group / Pre-School thing with a few friends from "the neighborhood". There are only about 6 kids, so it's a managable group. This week, they went and rode ponies. Malorie LOVED it!
This weekend was Megan's play, The Little Mermaid. She was a seahorse. We were very surprised when she said she wanted to try-out for the play. She's very shy, also and something like play try-outs seemed SO out of her comfort zone. But she did great and made a wonderful seahorse. This is Megan (right) with her cousin Marielle (left).
See, she's a little shy - always!
Here's a video of part of her play. It's about 2 minutes long, so it may take a while to download. Megan is at the far far right, on the end. Her cousin is the one next to her.
Megan's play was in the school gym. After the play we stayed and helped put chairs away. Jared decided he needed to play on the bleachers - dad had the camera and caught him being goofy.
So we've decided that Joseph is most likely never going to talk. Oh, we know it's our fault for keeping a binkie stuck in his face for the last 15 months of his life. He has been our only baby to take a pacifier, and it was HEAVENLY! However, he's now 18 months old and says nothing, except "Uh, Oh!" (And sadly, he say THAT a lot!)
So here he is being cute and using his sign language - really he just figured out that we think he's adorable when he waves HI so here he is doing it!
And just for fun, here was our view out the living room windows this weekend. Not a great picture, just a candid picture taken from the kitchen. It's definitely Fall - the leaves have all turned their yellows, reds and browns and now they're starting to pile up on the ground.
Brandon came home from work yesterday, after spending the day in Moses Lake with his co-workers and said "Hey, today is National Boss Day." Naturally, I instantly had a reply to that, but kept it to myself! He showed us a great card signed by everyone that works for him and then opened a wonderful gift from them - A Kodak Smart Picture Frame.
He said he's sure they decided to give him the picture frame b/c the family pictures he has up in his office are about 3 years old - I don't think Jaynie and Joseph are even IN the pictures he has there! LOL
I also wanted to share the card because, well, I'm just so happy to know that Brandon works with such great friends. It's never easy getting up and going to work every day - who wouldn't like to be independently wealthy or gainfully self employed? We're neither, so he drives in to work, every morning at 5:30 am.
I know he'd hate having to go in if it wasn't for the great team of people he gets to work with every day. He always speaks so fondly of every member of this group - what a blessing to be in such a great work environment!
October 13 - it was on this day, 12 years ago, that my grandmother passed away. I still miss her so badly! I can still hear her voice and I can still remember some of our conversations. I remember the things she liked and the things she didn't. I love flowers and birds because of my grandmother. Nobody appreciated the beauty of the world the way she did. What a wonderful thing to pass on to your children and grandchildren! I know how much she'd love to see the changing colors in our forest right now. Because of grandma, my kids and I spend a lot of time pointing out the beauty and the changes that we see.
I know I've said this before - but today is one of those days that I'd give anything for just one more day with her. A day to look into her eyes and a day to hear her voice. An opportunity to ask her questions and to tell her "thank you" for so many things. A chance to feel the love and tenderness and strength in her hands - a day to see her meet the seven children she never had the chance to. I guess then I'd just have to say good-bye again - maybe that's why we get memories instead...saying good-bye a second time would probably be worse than the first. I miss you grandma.
We had hoped to get real pictures taken last night, but that didn't work out - so we were stuck with mom's handy work. Next time we'll schedule better and go earlier in the day so we don't have to fight with lighting...and hopefully there will be a couple of warmer, sunny days left before winter - last night was just miserable!
Joseph- can you believe he will be 18 months in October! Man he's growing up so fast!
Jaynie - she's 3 1/2 going on 15.
Malorie - I think she really is 15...no wait, she'll be 5 in January.
Jared - 7 1/2
Megan - 8 1/2
Jacob - 10 1/2
Madilyn - 12
Jason - 13 1/2
Dad and the kiddo's -
Mom and the kiddo's -
Dad & Mom - 14 years and still tickin'
Mom says, "Say cheese!" and this is what she gets...
"Are you going to put YOUR baby picture in the blog today, mom?" Ugh - sure, why not. However, if I thought finding a digital picture of Madilyn was hard - imagine finding one that was 3 times her age. I'm not sure if I can upload a picture chipped in stone?
Today is the big 37. Madilyn said I could tell people I'm 29 - geee, thanks! LOL
The little kids and I have spent the entire day in our jammies - not because it's my birthday, but because Malorie was kind enough to share her cold with me. Oh SHE is fine now - full of pep and energy - I, on the other hand, would be very content crawling under a rock until Spring.
I don't have a current picture of myself, and I promise nobody wants me to take one today! But here I am 30-ahem years ago...
(I think I'm more like 6+mo in this picture - if I come across any pictures that are more "baby" than this, I'll add them later.)
Right now, 12 years ago, my baby girl was only a couple of hours old! I had spent the day before canning and juicing plums and I was SURE that the pain in my back was from standing at the stove all day. Actually, it was Madilyn Joy, planning her grand, early entrance! She wasn't "scheduled" to arrive for three more weeks, and after having Jason come just one week early, we weren't considering having a baby for another couple of weeks!
I remember making Brandon fix our vacuum before we went to the hospital at 1:00am so we could vacuum the floor before we left. I wanted to come home to a clean house and his sisters were coming to stay with Jason while we were gone. I think we got to the hospital around 3am and just after 6am, Madilyn was born. I remember the nurse asking me all of the tedious admitting questions and in the middle of it all, I said, "My water just broke." She paused and said, "I'll check and see if it really did." LIKE I WOULDN'T KNOW!? "Oh, it sure did Mrs. Lee." I figured since I'd been potty-trained for the past 23 years, I knew what I was talking about!
I was only in the hospital for about 13 hours so we don't have many "in the hospital" pictures. And since Maddie was "pre-digital" I don't have many baby pictures readily available on the computer. But here is our baby. She's 12 today. Holy Cannoli, how did THAT happen???
